"I am learning that I see D/s as a part of our whole rather than as the main focus in itself. I'm not sure that s does see it that way. This feels like it could be a big problem if we let it. So we better find a way of balancing"
...was something i started to write as a post a while back. Not sure where my head was at that day, because it is so clearly that she see's it as only a part of our whole now.
Think it may have just been all her energy going into it that overwhelmed me a bit, or maybe my less intense approach is starting to rub off on her. Maybe both.
